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The start of a new school year is an exciting time filled with growth, learning, and new routines. While many children jump right back into the rhythm with no issues, some parents might notice unexpected tears or hesitation during daycare or school drop-offs – even if it’s not your child’s first time.
Most babies begin to experience stranger anxiety between 7-9 months of age, and it can last anywhere from 6-12 months. At this stage, they’re learning important social cues and starting to understand that when a parent leaves, they’re not immediately coming back. Although it can be hard to watch, most babies are easily distracted and bounce back quickly.
Even toddlers or preschoolers who have been at the same daycare or preschool for months or years can suddenly become clingy or emotional when it’s time to say goodbye. This can happen when they become more aware of their surroundings and routines – and especially aware that Mom or Dad is leaving.
As your child grows, they may still experience moments of anxiety, especially when routines change or they face a new environment. Young children have strong imaginations, which can sometimes make them feel more unsure or fearful at times.
While it’s best not to ignore any sudden changes in your child’s behavior, some separation anxiety can be expected sporadically, and will likely pass with time. It’s important to be aware of your child’s behavior, especially if they are in the care of someone other than a parent. Trust your instincts, and always stay observant of how your child acts around other caregivers.
For any type of separation anxiety, it’s best for a parent to stay calm and reassuring. Children are extremely observant and often mirror their parents’ emotions. If you’re nervous or upset, they’ll sense it. A confident, soothing goodbye can go a long way in helping your child feel safe and settle more quickly. Discussing a strategy or plan with your child’s teacher can also help for a smoother transition.
If your child’s separation anxiety becomes intense or starts to interfere with daily life, don’t hesitate to speak with your child’s pediatrician.
Author: Savannah Browning
Dr. Savannah Browning grew up in Fayette, AL. She moved to Mobile to attend Medical School at the University of South Alabama in 2009, and has been a proud Mobilian ever since. She joined Children’s Medical Group in 2016, and her office is at the Airport Boulevard location. She lives in Mobile with her husband, Andrew, and their three children: Jude, Luke, and Annie.
